My goal for the coming month is…

Goals…

We all make them, even when we aren’t making them, we are making them. They are constantly in our head. What to do, when to do it by, how to do it, where we need to be, how to get there.

The truth is, that I am sick to death of setting up these massive goals for myself and then killing myself with pressure to get them done in time. So fucking what if i don’t? The sun will still shine, the tide will still come in. But, me, I will be here, dark rings under my eyes from lack of sleep, the shortest fuse because I have no time to waste and stressed to the max, because I set myself up for shit that really doesn’t need to have a time limit on it.

There is no consequence if I do not do something I set out to do and didn’t get it done. So what? Why am I so hard on myself about this shit? Why am I putting more pressure on myself than anyone else ever has. It’s fucking ridiculous.

Ambition…

I am not saying don’t have ambition, Fuck No. Be ambitious as fuck. Slay those dragons, Hustle Bitch. Go out there and be all you can be.

But Do Not kill yourself over it. Don’t stress yourself to the point of no return because you have a goal to reach and a timeline to do it by. Don’t do it. It’s not worth it.

I am no master on the matter, but one thing I know for sure, is that slow and steady wins the race. Getting yourself stressed out and worked up about shit will not get it done in time, And even if you make your deadline, you won’t be happy with the result anyway.

So take it slow. Take time to appreciate things around you. Reach your goals in your time. Life is not about the race, it is about the journey getting there and if you are running all the time, how will you ever get to see and smell the flowers along the way.

So my goal for this coming month is…

I had goals, I did. And then I got man flu. The real kind. You know the type that is worse than giving birth.  And I realised how hard I had been working this year, and how much I had already achieved and I thought Fuck It. My goal for this month is to not have goals. To not kill myself over events and plans and replying to emails in record-breaking time. To spend as much time outside as possible and to Chill The Fuck Out. Because I am already proud of who I am and how far I have come. I don’t need to give a fuck what anyone else thinks.

I will hustle and i will grind, but on my own bitchen time!

 

Peace Out Yo 😉